Single for the Holidays

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Alone for Thanksgiving

From today's mailbag:

I'm a single woman and here what I did. Last Thanksgiving, I invited my niece to come visit. She hadn't been to my hometown, San Antonio, and I knew she'd enjoy the sightseeing. Since it was just the two of us, we decided to work at an animal shelter on the day of Thanksgiving, because she's a big animal activist. So we called ahead of time to make sure they could use our help, and the Volunteer Director said, sure come ahead.

We fed some of the animals and did some cleaning up. After several hours we came home and turkey was ready. It was very a meaningful day for us both.

Share your stories about being single on Thanksgiving. Email them to me at sdunn@susandunn.cc and I'll post them.

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How to Get What You Want

Ram Dass, spiritual teacher, author and professor said:

"The most exquisite paradox ... as soon as you give it all up, you can have it all. As long as you want power, you can't have it. The minute you don't want power, you'll have more than you ever dream possible."

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ARE YOU READY FOR THE HOLIDAYS?

It's that time of year again - and the mailbox is filling up. There's also an increase in dating ... it's just that time of year. Fall is in the air. Or at least we hope it is. Here in Texas, we're glad we seem to have dodged a bullet on Hurricane Dean (and sorry for the Yucatan...)

Well, if you're single at this time, and looking, it's a good time to be looking. Here are some tips for how to meet somebody:

• Get out. I know you're heard this before, and if it had worked (you say) you wouldn't still be single, but in one way it's a numbers' games, and in another there's just something about taking action that makes an impression on the Universe ... or something like that.
• Are you on MySpace? I'm hearing a lot from people on MySpace!
• Take a trip. May be my karma, but I've always met a neat guy on a trip.
• Call a girl-friend and make a pact. That you'll do something once a week that furthers your interests in meeting new guys.
• Read DATING SUCCESS MANUAL FOR WOMEN - lots of tips in there.
• Get a dating coach (I'm happy to help)