Monday, August 20, 2007

Daniel Kobialka Talks about Emotional Intelligence

The Emotional Intelligence of Music: A Note for the Back-to-Schoolers

"Music to Motivate, Accelerate and Support Learning" is the article appearing on the website of reknowned violinist Daniel Kobialka: Daniel Kobialka Music

And a fitting topic it is, as we approach the beginning of another school year, though it's all the same to us lifetime learners. (We know it contributes to the emotional intelligence competency of resilience.)

On Kobialka's website: "I found years ago that music creates a healing environment. I find Kobialka's to be the best available." -Dr. Bernie Siegel.

Kobialka admits that as he prepares to write about music and learning, he is thinking about emotional intelligence.

From the article:

One concept that keeps popping up in articles and books about the subject, is how music can strengthen emotional intelligence. Daniel Goleman wrote a book on the subject in 1995, and since then there's been quite a buzz around the ideas. In fact, when the Harvard Business Review published an article on emotional intelligence two years ago, it attracted more readers than any other article published in HBR in the last 40 years! **Now that's buzz!

Although, like other "pop concepts" there has been considerable malignment, the idea has firm roots in science. Basically, there is scientific acceptance that there are cognitive (relating to thinking and the brain) and non-cognitive (everything else) intelligences. ... If we define success as a person's ability to act purposefully, think rationally, and deal effectively with his environment, then we immediately realize that how he, his coworkers, and his boss feel also impact the results he is able to achieve.


Kobialka lists some of the emotional intelligence competencies, noting how they inter-relate. He concludes:

"You can see how music that stimulates attention, calms anxiety, tempers over-exuberance, and creates happiness would also motivate, support and accelerate learning."

For more about music and emotional intelligence, see www.susandunn.cc/vivoperlei.htm. Now a coincidence that it is dedicated to a physician and healer, Dr. John J. Alifano, a pianist and composer.

**Get with the buzz - though as you can tell, this is far from the fad du jour. Coaching, Internet courses and ebooks to learn more about emotional intelligence and "ace the EQ exam." 817-734-1471, sdunn@susandunn.cc .

ARE YOU READY FOR THE HOLIDAYS?

It's that time of year again - and the mailbox is filling up. There's also an increase in dating ... it's just that time of year. Fall is in the air. Or at least we hope it is. Here in Texas, we're glad we seem to have dodged a bullet on Hurricane Dean (and sorry for the Yucatan...)

Well, if you're single at this time, and looking, it's a good time to be looking. Here are some tips for how to meet somebody:
  • Get out. I know you're heard this before, and if it had worked (you say) you wouldn't still be single, but in one way it's a numbers' games, and in another there's just something about taking action that makes an impression on the Universe ... or something like that.
  • Are you on MySpace? I'm hearing a lot from people on MySpace!
  • Take a trip. May be my karma, but I've always met a neat guy on a trip.
  • Call a girl-friend and make a pact. That you'll do something once a week that furthers your interests in meeting new guys.
  • Read DATING SUCCESS MANUAL FOR WOMEN - lots of tips in there.
  • Get a dating coach (I'm happy to help)